The Protection of Children Standard
The Children's Views, Wishes and Feelings Standard
This chapter informs staff on how appropriate physical contact has a part to play in all aspects of care for children and young people.
Safeguarding and Child Protection Policy
In January 2021, this chapter was reviewed and refreshed where required.
Children who have experienced Neglect and deprivation of affection need help to learn how physical touch can be part of appropriate and affectionate relationships. Children who have suffered Physical Abuse, Emotional Abuse and Sexual Abuse are often confused about the link between physical touch, aggression, sex and affection, so need the opportunity to learn how to give and receive affection appropriately.
Also see: Sexual Health and Relationships Procedure.
It is essential that when supporting children with appropriate forms of physical touch a clear discussion and assessment is undertaken by the team at the home as to the meaning any type of physical touch will have for the child. The Key Worker with the clinical team need to understand and record in the child's/young person's Placement Plan what are judged to be the most appropriate and safe ways in which physical contact is initiated and accepted with each individual child. The principle must always be that all forms of physical touch should be conducted within the context of the relationship with the person with whom it takes place. For example, it may be more acceptable for a Key Worker to give or receive a hug from a child to provide comfort than a new member of staff with whom the child has an early form of relationship.
Childhood First offers predominately long term treatment for children, and often the Childhood First community is the child's main place of residence. Therefore the staff provide for the daily needs of the children / young people which includes that of physical touch. It is for this reason that staff will often be required to meet a child's/young person's need for physical touch, whether it be a reassuring touch on the arm, holding a hand when crossing the road, a hug if the child is upset or has fallen over etc. The principles and safeguards described in this policy must always be followed to ensure that staff are themselves protected whilst also providing the child with the need for comfort.
Also see the following chapters:
Where children have particular difficulty with physical touch placement information records and risk assessments will outline exactly how staff should approach this area.
Also see: Key Worker Guidance.
The most important guideline for staff is that physical gestures of affection - for example a comforting hug - must be a reflection of a meaningful relationship which has taken time to develop. So although it may be in some sense gratifying that a child 'likes' or seems to take to you instantly, wanting to cuddle or sit on your lap, it is the responsibility of the staff member to help the child learn to regulate becoming too familiar too quickly - this tendency can pose real risks to them in life. So it is incumbent on the adult to be able to clearly find a way to communicate when a child gets too close - and there may be many occasions during a day! Doing this without rejecting a child who may have learnt that offering sexualised touch is a way of giving and receiving love is clearly sensitive and group consultation must be used to help.
Also see: Spending One to One Time with Children and Young People Procedure.
All staff, but particularly new staff, are vulnerable to children's misinterpretation and allegation and everyone must take care to protect each other. This means that staff, and new staff in particular, must not be left on their own, isolated in prolonged one-to-one contact with a child.
The supervision process, both group and individual, offers constant opportunity to reflect upon direct work with the children. For this reason the Childhood First methodology consists of a network of interlinking individual and group forums and very frequent opportunity to talk through the details of the work. Consultant child psychotherapists are skilled in connecting the child's experience with that of the staff. See Safeguarding and Child Protection Policy, Open Forums.
The experience of bathing which includes warmth, fun and the developing ability towards adequate and age appropriate self-care is an integral part of each child's routine.
Adolescent children should on the whole be expected to manage their own bathing and washing although they may need lots of support and encouragement to do so. Generally, for younger children a trusted member of staff will be available to each child during the process of bathing. All children need to receive appropriate supervision and company. See Care and Placement Planning Procedure.
The Childhood First methodology encourages staff to talk about the awkwardness inherent in situations where children have not learnt to dress and bathe themselves or where doctors or dentists remind them of physical or sexual intrusions. Integrated Systemic Therapy Policy helps staff to find ways of caring for children with warmth and affection, ensuring their bodies are well looked after and helping children to relate well to their own bodies and health in general. Children need also to learn what is private and many may have become confused about this because of their early experience and may be used to offering themselves for the gratification of others. All these situations need sensitive handling and there are few rules which apply to every child in every situation.
It is highly unlikely that an intimate search would ever be required for a child using Childhood First facilities. If it was needed for any reason, medical advice should be sought. A medical practitioner or a Police Officer should only carry it out in line with their guidance and procedures. Also see: Searching Children/Bedrooms Procedure.
Every child and situation is different, so staff members need to use consultation, supervision and general meetings to talk through complex situations. However, here are some general guidelines about physical touch. If in any doubt, discuss with your direct line manager.